Kaye advises that women "follow their instincts" when deciding whether their husband may be gay. You can do what you want now. I worked myself up into a right state about telling my parents I was bisexual, and so confided in my best friend for support. Show 25 25 50 All. For many, coming out means seeking an identity within the gay world, but I did not do that or find that. Loading comments… Trouble loading? Finally I sat my mum down first — thinking it would be better to start with her — and she said straight away, totally casually:
For many, coming out means seeking an identity within the gay world, but I did not do that or find that.
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For many, coming out means seeking an identity within the gay world, but I did not do that or find that. But if you're wondering, "Is my man gay," it might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, according to Kaye. I left school at 16 and got engaged to a lad that I was with until I was Coming out, and encouraging others to do so, has given my life meaning. Which is kind of awkward because I live next to a mosque — which my dad owns.
That was over a decade ago and she has — we have — come such a long way since. These signs a husband is gay are not meant to be definitive. In the end I married a man but, really, I never saw particular sexes anyway. If you're thinking that you can cure the gay by having your husband go to gay conversion therapyread this. Instead, I found an identity in and of myself, one neither reliant on heterosexual norms and culture nor gay ones. We still went to church, we had two children, but when my daughter was nearly two I suddenly realised: